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Un talked about

Postby Hash » Sat Oct 26, 2013 8:54 pm

I am just wondering does anyone want to talk about the elephant in the room.

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Re: Un talked about

Postby Hash » Sun Oct 27, 2013 10:21 pm

It seems that just as in real life people wont talk about certain subjects on this board they are not talked about either.

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Re: Un talked about

Postby sally » Mon Oct 28, 2013 3:43 pm

Hash,

would you like to name a subject you think would be helpful to talk about?
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Re: Un talked about

Postby Hash » Mon Oct 28, 2013 9:42 pm

Death ,

in particular saying goodbye to Ann
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Re: Un talked about

Postby sally » Tue Oct 29, 2013 10:01 am

I still feel shocked and sad that Ann has died. But I am relieved for her that all her struggles and worries are over.

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Re: Un talked about

Postby Keziah » Tue Oct 29, 2013 8:20 pm

Do we know when her funeral/ thanksgiving is?
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Re: Un talked about

Postby Hash » Tue Oct 29, 2013 9:37 pm

No we don't!

Beautifully Broken could you check her facebook page and find out for us?

All the information came via Facebook

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Re: Un talked about

Postby Hash » Tue Oct 29, 2013 9:39 pm

I share your shock sally but I too feel grateful her pain and suffering has come to an end.

I don't understand why she died.

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Re: Un talked about

Postby Keziah » Tue Oct 29, 2013 11:33 pm

I wanted to send a card and realised I did not have the ability to. When my parent died recently I was touched by cards. I had never thought about them before but that little gesture, often from someone I hardly knew touched me. Since then when I have heard of someone I know or their parent dying I have sent a card. A small gesture but it was something I found helpful at the time, that I was a tiny bit less alone.

I know Ann longed to be with Jesus but that does not make feelings any less difficult. A friend has lost a young relative recently and whilst her head knows the toddler is with Jesus her heart and feelings cannot accept that just yet. But this lady's faith in difficult times has really touched me.
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Re: Un talked about

Postby Beautifully_Broken » Wed Oct 30, 2013 12:51 pm

I have contacted one of Ann's friends for any updates. I will pass on anything I hear back.

Ann was very special to me and although we lived far apart, I knew I could always rely on her. She was just a lovely lady with a heart of gold.

Ruth x
With Jesus I can take it,
With Him I know I can stand,
No matter what may come my way,
My life is in your hands.

It's lonely when you don't even know yourself...
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Re: Un talked about

Postby Hash » Wed Oct 30, 2013 9:27 pm

THanks BB

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Re: Un talked about

Postby Keziah » Sun Nov 03, 2013 11:49 pm

Thanks BB
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Re: Un talked about

Postby Beautifully_Broken » Tue Nov 05, 2013 7:25 pm

Hey! So I heard back. The funeral was yesterday. Sorry folks!

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Re: Un talked about

Postby sally » Tue Nov 05, 2013 8:08 pm

thank you BB. I appreciate you finding things out and updating us, especially knowing how unwell you are.
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Re: Un talked about

Postby Hash » Wed Nov 06, 2013 9:23 pm

THanks BB
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Re: Un talked about

Postby kathie » Tue Nov 19, 2013 2:11 pm

Am shocked at this news. Does anyone know what happened.

Its very sad.
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Re: Un talked about

Postby sally » Tue Nov 19, 2013 2:42 pm

It is very sad and shocking isn't it. We don't know what happened but at least we know she is with the Lord now.
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Re: Un talked about

Postby kathie » Tue Nov 19, 2013 3:11 pm

thank you for responding Sally.

So glad she knew the Lord as her saviour.
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Re: Un talked about

Postby sally » Wed Nov 20, 2013 2:10 pm

Her death didn't seem real to me at first and I'd find myself thinking of Asc and then suddenly re-remembering. There were no 'normal' grieving things like being able to send a card or going to her funeral.

I hope you can take care of yourself as you think about Asc Kathie,
best wishes, Sally
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Re: Un talked about

Postby Keziah » Wed Nov 20, 2013 6:40 pm

Hi Kathie - no, we do not know what happened. Someone kindly informed us on here.

Sally - I agree with you, the shock of it made it less real for me. I really wanted to send a card also - when my relative died last year the cards received somehow really helped, showing that my relative mattered and was valued. Since then I always send a card - so when friends relatives die etc I send one. The doing, the ritual really helps grieving.

She loved her poetry, I was wondering if any was read at her funeral? It is good she was well known in her church community.
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