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Also struggling

Postby asc » Thu Aug 30, 2012 4:10 pm

I have been working hard to ensure that this rat show qualifies for a star and is all sorted out. Today my judge pulls out! Two days before the show! She has to work. She was already a replacement for another judge who pulled out. I feel so frustrated and hurt, and am getting strong urges.

Also frustrated by frequent internet problems.
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Re: Also struggling

Postby sally » Thu Aug 30, 2012 6:44 pm

Oh Ann,

how frustrating after all your careful planning.
Who is responsible for trying to find another judge - again - for the show?

Knowing what thoughts are triggering these urges, could you try to use words to express how you feel rather that hurting yourself. I'm praying for you that you can find ways to get through and not act on the urges.

And I a new judge will be found and the show goes ahead without any further hitches,
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Re: Also struggling

Postby Keziah » Fri Aug 31, 2012 11:04 am

That sounds frustrating - I hope it is sorted and that you can be kind to yourself. x
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Re: Also struggling

Postby asc » Fri Aug 31, 2012 3:22 pm

That was sorted, although not ideally, and the urges haved faded, but I'm not feeling too good at present.
Ann www.annspoetry.weebly.com / www. annssmallpets.weebly.com
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Re: Also struggling

Postby Keziah » Fri Aug 31, 2012 4:40 pm

Hi, if you had urges it may take a bit of time before you settle - that is what I found happened to me anyway.

my little boy is now 6 months old and is sending you a lovely smile as I type this - and he tried to press buttons as well :)
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Re: Also struggling

Postby Frodosgirl » Sat Sep 01, 2012 11:20 am

I am praying for you, I hope you can keep fighting the urges x
One more day.....
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Re: Also struggling

Postby Hash » Sun Sep 02, 2012 6:16 pm

How are you feeling today Ann? Any better?

I am thinking of you, as kezzie says it takes a while for emotional turmoil inside to settle, give it time.

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Re: Also struggling

Postby asc » Sun Sep 02, 2012 6:45 pm

Pretty good, thank you, although a bit tired.
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Re: Also struggling

Postby Hash » Mon Sep 03, 2012 2:30 pm

Glad your pretty good.

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Re: Also struggling

Postby Frodosgirl » Wed Sep 05, 2012 9:41 pm

I'm praying that you can stay feeling pretty good x
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Re: Also struggling

Postby asc » Thu Sep 06, 2012 11:09 pm

Thank you.
Ann www.annspoetry.weebly.com / www. annssmallpets.weebly.com
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"You are God's masterpiece." Ephesians 2v10 God doesn't make junk!
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